Tuesday, September 29, 2015

Rwandan Cultural Fashion Show 2015!!



Front
Last week I saw two women sitting in the Serena Lounge having a coffee and chatting away. I'd been feeling a little lonely, (not that Paul's company has not been great, but I'm by myself quite a bit of the day) and I missed having a coffee and a chat with friends. Soooo, I screwed up my courage and went over and introduced myself. I'm so glad I did!



Back

They are lovely nurses from the US and before long they invited me to join a group of workers from the HRH health initiative, for drinks at Heaven (restaurant) the next night. Paul and I went and to our amazement joined a group of about 25 people drinking and eating and having a great time. We had a great time too. We met lots of people, dentists, nurses, physicians, economists, geologists, designers etc.from all over the world, working in Rwanda. There seems to be a whole community of workers who work internationally mainly teaching. Unbelievably one of Paul's students from U of M was there with her husband and children. He is a Pediatrician teaching at a local community hospital.

On the Runway clapping for their designer


The fun was not over and the next night I was invited to join them at the Rwandan Cultural Fashion Show at the Mille Collines Hotel. (Remember the movie, Hotel Rwanda, this was the hotel) It was great, I felt like I was really on the runway, sort of! I took lots of pictures and the designers were from Rwanda, Uganda, Burundi and Ghana. 

Purchased for about $40 US
loved these two!





 The models were all really slim, just like in the US, although most women are not that size. One woman in our group bought a dress that was in the show at the "after party". It cost $40! Not bad for an original designer dress.


Cool in the hot weather
 There was a section on "cultural" dress,
 not for every day!



My favorite of the show!

the whole gang


Orange capes are not worn nearly enough
Speaks for itself
I had my eye on this strapless black and red print but I couldn't imagine where/when I would wear it.  

                      




    Enjoy the Show!! 
Very Sophisticated                         



 
Front


Loved this one too!
I would wear this! 
                           

Above: sophisticated back / lovely green asymmetrical button down


Saturday, September 26, 2015

Genocide Memorial

Paul and I took a trip out of the city last weekend to Nyamata. It is one of the cities that has a Genocide Memorial site and is not that far from Kiyovu. In order to get there we took a local bus to the main bus depot in Nyabugogo. This district is about 15min away with a small but lively city center. We were let off  in a central parking area with many buses coming and going. Just around the corner we found a number of shops surrounding a "square" and in the middle was the bus center that has the buses that go to destinations outside of Kigali.

Aside from the usual fruit, vegetable, clothing and house wares this little market had a few shoe repairmen. They were kind enough to let me snap a photo as they worked.
All the shoe guys had green jumpsuits
Shoes seem to be a big business here, there are many street vendors that display 50+ pairs of shoes, sandals, sneakers- all laid out on a blanket in front of a shop or on a corner. These men were repairing old shoes by sanding the bottoms and gluing new soles then shining them up before selling or returning them to owners. I've been told the many shoe vendors on the streets are selling second hand shoes and to go to Bata if I want new ones. Speaking of shoes, people wear everything here as they climb up and down these hills, from flip flops to beautiful beaded sandals, to sneakers and of course high heels!! I don't know how they do it! I'm going to get a pair of beaded sandals, even if I wear them once! The men stick with sneakers or regular men's leather shoes. They are so practical!

Once we paid our 500 rwf (about .75) we hopped on the correct bus not without a little help from a friend. The buses wait in the station until they are full, no kidding, you could wait in the bus as much as 30-40 min waiting for the last seat to be taken, the whole time street vendors come up to the window with water, (amazi), soda, (fanta), tissues, gum, candy and hard boiled eggs! One of these days I'm going for the eggs! The bus was crowded, but people are friendly and the 1 hour journey began.
A view from the middle of the bus

As we left the city the scenery became more green and we could see one and two room cement houses situated off the main road. We also saw many young men walking their bicycles uphill carrying big yellow jugs of water. The women also walked up and down the hill with all kinds of wares on their heads. Outside the city there are more farmers.

Carrying jugs of water uphill
There is a program to bring all year round irrigation to the farmers so they don't have to wait for the rains in order to grow food. It is still in the works after 3 years. I took some photos from the moving bus, but they're not awesome!

One/Two room houses set back from the road
Once we arrived in Nyamata we stopped for a cold drink and asked directions to the Church. Of course we took the LONG way around by accident and finally with the help of a few French speaking nuns we found the church.
 It was here in this church that 10,000 Tutsi's sought refuge during the genocide. The Hutu militia surrounded the church and fired their rifles and grenades thru the church gates. They broke the doors down and killed everyone inside. The altar and statues are bullet ridden, and as testimony to the assault there are weapons laid out on the altar as well as the identity cards Rwandans were forced to carry for many years attesting to their "ethnicity". This is viewed as proof that there was an effort to divide the nation's people, a premeditation to the genocide.
This is the old church with grey and white mourning buntings


An Italian woman, Tonia Locatelli, attempted to assist the Tutsi's with food and shelter. Her activities were noticed by local authorities and she was shot and killed on her front doorstep. She is buried here at the church as well.
Tonya Locatelli's tombstone

Inside the church there are rows of pews facing the altar on 3 sides. The bloody clothes taken from the victims are piled on the pews and the floor in the back of the church. It was a moving site, especially recognizing small shirts and pants belonging to the children.


The lower level had shelves of bones and skulls of the victims. Their wounds are visible and the Rwandans keep these remains as a testimony to the violence that took place and out of respect for those who were murdered. One is not allowed to take photos inside. There was a mass grave outside with the words "Genocide Never Again". It was a sad place to visit.


We made it back to the bus station just in time for a major rainstorm!

Saturday, September 19, 2015

Well, this past week had it's ups and downs...

On the up side, we found a "health club" to join so we can maintain some level of fitness. The closest and most obvious was the "Serena Maisha" at the local 5 star Hotel Serena. Ok, so it's totally decadent, but it's a wonderful treat to meet up with Paul in the late afternoon, lay-out and go for a swim in the bracing water. The waterfalls are so peaceful. We deserve it!
Fresh fruit juice is included in our membership!




I've taken 3 spinning classes so far. A word about the spinning...bikes are ok, they are very much like the original spinning bikes I started on about 15 years ago- but so what, they can still kick my butt!! There are also plenty of free weights, machines and a circuit to keep us busy. I'll try one or two other classes now that my cold is about over.

Before I go on about our Kinyarwanda lessons at the Embassy today or the traditional African Buffet Lunch we sampled on Sunday let me give you a run down on the people here. They are very friendly, kind and are very welcoming. For example when we get on buses sometimes the whole bus is involved in a discussion to make sure we get out at the right stop, at the grocery store people make sure we find everything we need and if we're walking down the street and even look like we don't know where we are going, people stop and ask if we need help. So, we feel very comfortable with the people we've encountered everywhere. Even the building guards, carrying automatic weapons, smile and say good morning as we jog by or walk past.
Guards are at the entrance of every building

Did I mention that this city is has tons of "security guards" hired by banks, hotels, schools, shops, apartment houses, etc. . They kind of remind me of a doormen, only in khakis and machine guns! It's a very safe neighborhood with security every 50 yards.

As we walk around town people typically don't pay much attention unless it's to say Mwaramutze! (good morning). Usually we greet passersby first with Muraho (hello) or Mwaramutze!  Everyone greets us with a smile in response to our Kinyarwanda and the response by almost everyone  includes Amakuru? (how are you). Once we get past the first few words of greeting we're done. But it's ok, they appreciate our effort to speak their language and they often respond with a few words in English as well.

The range of people I see on the streets is varied for sure. Up around the banking area, KIST and Hotel Serena women are dressed in Western business type attire, or traditional Rwandan outfits-- which favor large, bright prints with some variation of ruffles and usually a head piece. Most men wear slacks and long sleeve button down shirts, even some suits in the banking district.



 As I walk down the hill, away from the school and into the smaller streets, there are hundreds of shops everywhere, and the dress is more casual with jeans on the guys and ladies wearing what looks like less formal African wear or western skirts/tops or pants. It's funny, lots of clothes must be second hand, and I've noticed tons of street vendors hawking everything from fake Rolex watches to underwear, including all sorts of used clothing and everything in between. Today I passed 3 somewhat grizzled older Rwandan men all wearing the same tee-shirts- "pure-blonde"(LOL) and a woman dressed in a lovely printed wrap skirt with a jacket that had mickey mouse on the back. America has made it's mark.

lots of motoscooters which are a common method of travel

As I walk further down and closer to the real commercial district, which I call "Canal Street" there are more poor people, many with injuries like missing limbs and birth defects that are in the crowd. There are also a fair number of woman who carry their children around and sit outside of restaurants asking for money. It's hard to know what the story is, but I've been told there are many women who were made widows in the genocide who have babies, and those children have babies. I think there is more to it than that though. ( I would like to organize those women into some who work and some who watch all the kids. Seems like it could work.)

Still amazed at what is carried on the head


Here, in the commercial area, people sit/stand outside their shops or spaces and talk, argue, trade and spend their day trying to earn a living. In general it's very lively and as I pass by and say Muraho to the crowd they are very nice and don't try to force me to come in and look at their wares. I appreciate that. The shops are usually tiny with merchandise stacked from floor to ceiling and spilling into the street. It's not unusual to see a porcelain bathtub, racks of clothing or rolls of rugs framing the doorways of their respective shops.


A woman carries clothes for sale over her arm

a wide range of baskets, drums and gourds

  In general there are stores like Nakumatt which is the Kigali version of Sam's club carrying everything from washing machines to bread and vegetables, but shopping in the markets and city streets is pretty third world with lots of haggling and enticing buyers to come and look at the wares laid out.
A handsome lad I ran into!

Dynamic Edge in Kigali- I bought a lovely carved bowl here so they let me take a photo!
Commerce Ave, dubbed Canal Street


So where we live, near KIST, (college of science and technology) is more or less on the top and everything falls below us on all sides. As we go down the hills most streets are well paved, lucky for us because it is pretty steep! with deep trenches (up to 2 feet at least) on either side for the water to run down. Of course EVERYTHING is down a hill somewhere so we're getting plenty of walking, going just about anywhere whether it's to the health club, buy water or get a coffee. I'm going to need another pair of sneakers/tennis shoes for sure.

Well, I'll end here, this is getting long and probably a bit boring and the internet is pretty sketchy these days, but I wanted to give you all a picture of what it's like to go for a walk down the streets of Kiyovu and say something about the friendliness and kindness of the people around us.

Deb





Sunday, September 6, 2015

The house hunting continues....

Did you guess where we chose to live? Almost every answer would have correct one day or another!

After a 10 day stay at the wonderful Hotel Gloria, waiting for our modern 2 bedroom apartment in Kychiru, we "lost" the apartment due to a crazy turn of events. The best we could do was wait another 10 days for a 3 bedroom in the same complex to be available. The hotel was great but I couldn't take living out of a suitcase for another 2 weeks. (The sheets were really scratchy!)

So, we moved to the nearby Altis apartments in Kiyovu for 2 weeks to wait it out.

It only took one night and we decided to stay here permanently. The place is not as modern and nice as the other but we are centrally located and can walk everywhere! It's totally convenient and I've already found a cafe nearby that serves great cappuccino and teas all for about $1.50! We're here.  Finally!! The view from our balcony is lovely and peaceful, yet we are in the heart of Kiyovu.

Looking out over the hills of Kigali

Tambo and Gheryi exchanging rings

Meanwhile highlights of last week included a traditional Rwandan Wedding (Zoe's friend Tambo invited us)

We started with a traditional ceremony including ring exchange followed by a reception in which the wedding party change from traditional clothing to more western attire. The traditional dancers, drummers and singing were amazing and we were very grateful to be included in the event.
The dancers troop in to loud drums and cymbals on the feet and legs!
Performing for the audience
The costumes were amazing
We've spent quite a bit of time learning the "new" bus system and feel confident about getting around. We took a bus to Nyamirambo a great little area of the city known as the Muslim quarter. Lots of shops and markets and people out and about. We've decided to visit each quarter of the city, taking the bus to the end of the line to learn the bus routes and whenever possible walking home.
This woman was very friendly to us

Street scenes in Nyamirambo- only the main road is well paved and the streets are hard packed red dirt. There are many street type vendors selling tomatoes, huge avocados and vegetables very cheaply. We found a fresh fish market here but our stomachs are not quite up to more adventurous meat and fish other than a little chicken in the restaurants.


looking down a side street, notice the taxi motos



I've been so impressed with how women carry nearly everything on their heads. No hands, perfect balance. I've discovered they have these little hat things made out of scarves wrapped around which form a little concave cushion. Not to take away from this woman who is balancing about 20 pounds of tree tomatoes on her head as she leisurely walked up the  hill. I haven't tried it yet.


Loved this picture
Everyone is very friendly and they are seemingly appreciative and amused alike in our attempts to speak Kinyarwanda. We'll start classes at the US Embassy in a week or two and probably sign up with a private tutor we found.

My last big find was the fabric market where I made a small purchase and will find a tailor to make me a traditional wrap skirt. I'm trying to blend in!



Each section of the shop has it's own vendor. I could barely choose!


 There were a bunch of small shops like this crammed full of gorgeous fabrics. I never would have found this little alley of shops inside a tiny doorway on the Rue de Commerce without my new friend Christiana. She is a German anthropologist who works on cooperative projects in developing countries that mainly help women earn money & become financially independent. She left for home today but will hopefully come back before we leave.

Well, we're finally unpacking and making our apartment feel like home. School doesn't start until 9/21 so we'll spend next week looking for volunteer opportunities for me. Write / email how you doing back home!

Caio! Deb